TO
AUSTRALIA FOR LOVE

Trying to
work out the sailing schedule of 55 years ago was not so simple, but with the
help of the few of these little reminders from that time, it must have been my third
trip on the Straat Banka to Australia. It did not take long for a young
seafarer to feel happy on this service; Australia was a genuine paradise for
fun loving bachelors as there was no shortage of females, willing to
participate to make you feel welcome to this country, they actually would lead
the way to happiness.
As a rule
there were always the nurses in need for male companions for parties, but there
were also strict rules to be followed, which were policed by the matron on
their side and the ship’s Captain on the our side. Rules could of course be
broken, which ended up in loosing the hard earned privilege of being
trustworthy, when found out. Midnight was the deadline of the party, either
ashore or on board. We made it a point to ensure the girls were taken home,
what happened after that was beyond the control of the “management”.
In 1970 at
a BBQ in a northern suburb of Melbourne I was staring at this lady, trying to
remember when or where I had met her before and was about to speak to her when
she indicated with her finger on her lips for me to keep quiet. A few minutes
later she proved to have a better memory than mine, when she confirmed to
recognise me from the early days on the Straat Banka and explained that her
parties on board RIL ships had always been a sore point in her married
relationship. Her partner would not believe it just had been a good time.
The above
drawing pertains to a ground hostess of ANA in Brisbane, who qualified as air
hostess and started her career by flying up and down the East Coast and was on
the phone too often. She interfered with my carefully constructed logistics
system for quite some time.
For nearly
two years I managed to stay clear of serious love as I had no time for those
commitments. Then the wheels fell off, or rather the bra came off……….and I ran!
The daughter of a wealthy tycoon, whose business is still doing well in
Melbourne had been on the ship with her parents for the voyage from Singapore
to Melbourne. The segregation of passengers and Officers had been extremely
strict and she had been well chaperoned and could (officially) only look at us
from a distance. However, now she was free from the rules and on her own
territory and like a hunter looking for prey, she had me in her sights. I was
tipped off by the Chief Engineer, who said I could hide in his sleeping
quarters. He played his little game well and before I knew that I was trapped,
I heard him leave his cabin. She walked in, locked the door and started to
undress, when the bra came off she asked: “What is wrong with me, am I
flatchested or what?” With one jump I was out of the window, colliding with the
Chief, who stood there enjoying himself and I shot up the stairs to hide in the
funnel. Phew, it was close but that did the trick, I never saw her again.
Later that
day my local girlfriend explained that the Tjibadak was due in port and she was
to meet the 3rd Engineer, who was not only superior in rank, but
also twice my size.
Some you
win, some you loose, but the air hostess phoned and asked: “coffee, tea or me?
Then there were more voyages to Hobart to fill our
reefer rooms with apples. The cartoon showed that we were not the only ones to
look forward to some time ashore and renew the acquaintance of the owners of
Meyendell and their children, the Captain was on the look out for his latest
lady friend, but could not be blamed for a sudden wind gust and tricky currents
in the Derwent River, that blew the ship into the wharf, causing a big dent in
the hull. Again we were entertained and taken for sightseeing tours and I was
one of the lucky ones to be taken by mother and daughter on a trip to New
Norfolk for a good English style afternoon tea.
That visit
to Hobart did leave a big impression, in more ways that one.
This was
another aspect of sailing on Australia , where people would make you feel at
home and it was so normal to be accepted as one of them, joining in at BBQ
outings and visits to the Country. They made you remember what “family life”
was all about. Of course it seemed weird to us to share a drink in the Pub and
take a glass of beer out to the girls in the car; it seemed weird to walk
around in a singlet on bare feet in public spaces, but be all dressed up when
going to the pictures in a cinema like going to a grand performance in Albert
Hall. As we stayed longer away from Holland, we accepted the Aussie way of life
and we felt at home.
Compared to
the present turn around of container ships, we stayed in port for long periods.
All cargo was stowed away by hand in lower holds, tween decks and reefer rooms,
Union regulations prevented short cuts and stoppages were frequent. Two drops
of rain meant that it was really pouring and all work had to stop, smelly or
dirty cargo gave reasons for additional money to be handed out, at noon on Saturdays
all work stopped to give the men a chance to go to the footy or the races and
so the list went on. This all meant that we had more opportunities to go ashore
and with that meet more people. My personal problem was my soft spot for the
opposite sex: I fell in love very fast and very frequent. This brought great
amusement to my seniors, who had been there and done the same and could now
snigger and relive the memory, by seeing me falling in one trap after the next.
The very same seniors solved my problem by suggesting that I should ask Head
Office for an urgent transfer to a service away from Australia……….and their own
daughters. That was done and in next to no time did I get my orders to join the
Straat Bali on the Japan to South America Service.
That was
the start of a new life as the attitude of the people sailing on that service
was definitely different to the Australia ships, they even thought themselves
to be superior to that home loving lot from “down under”. There were long ocean
crossings to be made on the way to South America and back to Japan, like from
Singapore to Durban and Cape Town to Rio de Janeiro on each voyage, with
nothing but the sea to look at.
That is
where people had hobbies to fill the time between sea watches, the Captain had
a loom in his cabin and made carpets, the Chief Officer had a trunk full of
pocket books and read one after the other and I started to dream and write
letters. I did have a pen friend in Holland, a girl called Els and there and
then I created another friend: a girl in Australia called Mieke.
Hans van
Weel
Safety
Beach VIC
10 October
2009