Adequacy

Are you ready for marriage?

Do you feel adequate to fulfil the roles you will be called to carry out when married?

If God has called together to be married you will be at the stage of Christian maturity He expects you to be at and will work through the betrothal period to prepare you both for marriage.

If God has called you together then Satan will work to break up the betrothal or stop you being prepared by God for marriage so that you and go into marriage with problems he can use to try and destroy the marriage.

He will try and place on you negative emotions and attitudes that will either hinder your learning what God wants you to learn or will break up the betrothal (engagement) so the marriage does not occur.

Satan will try and make you doubt you are to marry the person. This is why you must be sure God wants you to be married to that person so can fight the doubt Satan places on you with the truth that God wants you to both be married to each other

If He cannot blind you to the weaknesses in your character that will hinder the betrothal and subsequent marriage then he will try and use them to cause you doubt about your adequacy to marry or your being acceptable to your future spouse

This is where you will need deliverance to deal with these weaknesses so that Satan cannot use them against you.

You are adequate fair marriage because:

God has called you to it so has prepared you for it

If you were not adequate why would Satan try and make believe that you are not adequate. He only attacks What you have, not what you do not have!

You are adequate in Jesus because in your relating to Him He prepares what you need to be to do what He asks you to do

You are only required to love as Jesus Loves. If you cannot then deliverance with be necessary. You will fail in obedience to Jesus but all that God asks you to do is to repentant and to keep on trying to do His Will for you each day. God only asks you to do this and to leave the future to Him (Matt 6:33).

As you do this you are being matured to what He desires you to be at each stage of the betrothal period in preparation for marriage.

All you need for any aspect of your life will be on the path He has prepared tor You to walk in before creation began

If you doubt your adequacy and abilities you are saying God has made a mistake with you and at that point of time you are not what you should be for what He has called you too, This is true when are trying to obey Him. If you are not trying to obey Him then you are not where you should be because of your disobedience and because you are not following the path of Mat 6:33! You are reaping what you have sown (Gal 6:7-8)

If your self worth is based on Jesus and not on your idea of a what you should be you trust Him for how He has made your and adequacy, self worth, self esteem and your abilities will not be a problem as they will be based on His value of you and not from your own reason which Satan will try and influence so that you will have a wrong opinion of yourself.

When ever relating to your betrothed or your spouse never assume things or react but ask The Holy Spirit what to say is correct s well as how to respond to what they have said. This also applies to thoughts that come into your mind whose source could be The Holy Spirit, Satan or yourself.

If you take all to Jesus through the Holy spirit you will never have problems in regard to adequacy and ability as The Holy sprint will tell what you need to do it the situation you are in.